Relationships are an inevitable part of our lives. From the moment we are born to the minute we pass on, we are interacting with other souls.
Though we are all part of some relationships on a daily basis, there are a few things we were never taught about relationships in general.
True love is the non-judgemental, unconditional flow of loving energy from one to another.
True love and being madly in love are two very different things. A person who thinks he/she is in love is actually in love with the feeling he experiences when being with the other person. Whereas true love is selfless.
But to be able to feel true love is one of the hardest tasks. All of us have expectations from our near and dear ones, from our acquaintances and friends and when we do not receive, there is disappointment and withdrawal of love. You tend to feel dejected and hurt.
People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.
Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.
In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.
Sometimes when your heart has been hurt deeply by life’s experiences, loving others becomes impossible. Here’s when a healer cum counselor can help you heal your heart enough to allow you to begin to love again through Pranic® healing, and Reiki®.
Reiki® and Pranic® Healing are very effective tools to assist in creating and nurturing successful relationships in your life. They help to recognize that each relationship is a living creation. It is a special blend of energies between people. Once you recognize the relationship as a life form, it becomes much easier to detach your thoughts and emotions and be able to serve as a channel of healing energy which is directed to the relationship.
Many people are placed in our lives for us to learn our lessons
If we begin to resent people in our lives and curse our situation we are only delaying our progress. The situation will not go away until we have learned our lesson. This comes from the humility of understanding that whatever we are facing in our present life is the effect of a cause we have set in motion (possibly in earlier lives) by some wrongdoing of our own.
Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat.
A healer can help identify what the possible learning could be and how to resolve the relationship problem by looking within to see where we can change internally. When we have understood that it is we, who have to change, the battle is won and our relationships begin to transform into better ones as we transform ourselves. Instead of judging others we begin to take responsibility for our actions and take the control of our life back into our hands, we are no longer dependent on others for our internal peace and happiness.
There was once a lady whose husband suddenly decided to reduce the money he gave her for monthly expenses, forcing her to get a job. As her finances increased, the money she got from her husband began to reduce, until one day he simply said she had to now fend for herself. She was bitter and angry when she went to a healer, only to be shown a completely different understanding of the situation. She was told that in many lives she, as a soul, refused to stand on her own feet, and her husband was her long-standing friend who had decided in this lifetime to help her learn to be independent. With this understanding, she was able to forgive and bless her husband and transform her life and gain inner peace.
We attract the relationships we experience in life
When there is a deep understanding of the law of cause and effect we can begin to transform our lives and no longer be affected by external situations. Our internal peace and calmness begin to radiate outwards transforming all situations into peaceful and harmonious interactions. We begin to respond to situations and stop reacting to them setting in further calmness in our minds. And as we gradually start embracing the habit of responding we radiate positive energies around us for ourselves and for others attracting similar energies and vibes.
You start realizing the importance of responding to situations when you think about them with a still mind, and meditation can help you calm your mind bringing in stillness to see things from a different perspective. Meditation also helps bring inner peace and calmness. It helps to cleanse the energy centers in the magnetic field surrounding our body, especially the heart center.
After when you realize that your mind is still and your energy centers cleansed you start recognizing the energies between people and channeling your energy towards healing your relationships with them.
Tell us your experiences, what did you learn from your relationships and how did you heal them?